I give so many opportunities for people to say how they feel.. how they REALLY feel. I always ensure to those I keep around me that they can ALWAYS tell me how they feel, I won't judge. Yeah, I'm human .. so of course I won't like everything you say, but at least what you told me was in pure honesty.
I get so tired of people not being real with me. I get tired of having to be a human lie detector. I get tired of pretending that everything is okay when I can clearly see that certain people I care about are not being fully honest with me. I always thought that if I asked in order to clarify things with people, that it wouls all work itself out. But it always seems like the more I ask, the less honesty I receive.
You'd be surprised at what I can handle. If I ask, it's not for me to find a way to be upset... but a way to prove to you that I can handle whatever you tell me, maturely. Don't underestimate my intelligence, it's insulting. I know when you're lying and I know when you're not. Just because I'm not calling it out, doesn't mean I'm not tallying. If you fear hurting me or don't want to be too honest because you feel like I'll be upset, remember this: You hurt me more by lying to me and I know you're lying.
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